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misha's avatar

Normally I don't comment on people's newsletters if I don't know them personally, as it feels a bit presumptive. But I was really moved by this issue, and I wanted to let you know two things:

--Your writing about the internet is some of the best writing on the topic that I have ever encountered. I am considering citing it in my dissertation, which is an odd form of praise, but speaks to how thoughtful and necessary I think it is. People love to complain about anyone being critical. And honestly, I don't even experience social media in the same way you discussed! But that's okay--it was well worth reading anyway, and made me think.

--Your description of Iowa winter hit me hard, in an empty place I didn't realize was empty. I grew up in Michigan, and these cold open winter days of snow and silence and bright, bright light are part of the poetry of my life, and I didn't realize that I had seldom heard anyone write about it well until now. And right now I live in Ohio, and there is very little snow and it doesn't really get cold, and winter is just blah, with none of the fierce beauty. Thank you for reminding me of that beauty.

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Stefanie's avatar

Hi there - I just want to say that I got so upset reading that people were upset by your last newsletter and thoughts about social media. When I read your last newsletter, I felt that you were able to put the words to what it is that I feel and don't enjoy about sharing with my followers. I think most people really don't know what it's like to share something (anything - something random or something small that brought you joy) and be bombarded with a million DMs asking what it is - you know they don't really care, so why are they asking? Why do they have to know? I've never been able to make sense of it! I have a small business - and I actually had to stop using social media because I found this to be so draining. It's not real connection. You hit the nail on the head. Please don't stop writing or talking about it. The people who are getting offended are the ones who need to hear it most.

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