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Carolita Johnson's avatar

Maybe I’m a relic of the past, but I’ve always felt like the choice between marriage and public life is the main choice. "Happily ever after” has always meant “and then we never heard from her again,” it always seemed. And yet, rejecting domesticity/marriage, I also feared that once I got older, I would no longer be the darling of the public (or, in my case, academia or fashion), and would be discarded just as I potentially would by a husband and the life I thought might save me from such disappointment in the public sphere. Is it a woman thing, or is it just a human thing? Do we all fear these things? At this point, all influencers must feel that fear, whoever they are. So, yes, the novel is prescient while being old-fashioned. Anyone should be able to relate to Verena. At this point, I kind of relate to Olive — if I were to be truly, nakedly honest, what wouldn’t I give to find a trusty aging-mate to share a life/living space with who I wouldn’t fear would run off with a lover (or whatever) and leave me? Poor Olive! Who will be her roommate now?

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Alexandra Sara's avatar

Just a note to say, I love the way you write. It’s honest and straight forward when broaching complex subjects and has an ease to it which is very pleasurable to read. Thank you.

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